Asian Girls Bringing Friends on Dates.
So, this is part 2 of Asian girls bringing friends on dates, or what I call the 'friend factor.' We already talked about the type of girl that is just looking to get a free lunch for her and her friends at your expense.
I now want to discuss the good girls, the ones that you might seriously want to consider dating or marrying. These girls are also quite likely to bring their friends on the first date. Their motivations are not the same as what was discussed in part 1.
In many Asian cultures, especially ones with a strong emphasis on 'face' girls are insanely worried about what other people think and how they appear to others. Asian girls can often be insecure. They may not entirely trust their own judgement. I have been on many dates where the girl and I were clicking and hitting it off, but the friends weren't on the same wavelength. The girl will then leave and discuss you with all her friends. If the friends like you, then your in, if they don't like you then no matter how much the girl is digging you, it's over.
This phenomena is especially common with younger girls. The older women, will have likely started to gain some confidence and will consider their friends advice, but also use their own noodle when considering future dates with you.
So what have we learned? If you show up to a date and the Asian girl has brought her friends, make a sincere effort to win over the friends. My experience has been that you can almost ignore the girl and she will happily continue dating you if the friends liked you. It's strange and maybe not entirely in line with how we see things, but there is nothing you can do about it. If the girl shows up with friends, you might as well make the best of the situation.
End of Part 2.